This past week, I have undertaken various shopping expeditions, while hunting for birthday and Christmas presents. I bought what I could online and, after traipsing what seemed like kilometres around shops, have now decided there is much to be said for purchasing something with the click of a button, despite those delivery costs! Yes, it was fun—to some degree. Yet throughout this process, I also found myself feeling slightly overwhelmed—even a little shocked.
So many options. So much choice. So many people. So much noise!
These feelings set in early when I visited two similar stores with an astonishing array of exotically-named perfumes and spray mists, crammed together on shelves reaching from floor to ceiling. I mean—how does one choose? Then in several other stores, I saw whole walls filled with board games of every description. Some were variations of the same game, while others seemed mere modern versions of old board games we played years ago, all now packaged expensively, of course. When I was a child, we used pencil and paper to play many of these—no big, fancy boxes for us!
No doubt suddenly being back in large shopping centres after our long COVID lockdown added to my sense of feeling overwhelmed. Yet even shopping online at times, I found the choice of products available equally overwhelming. There, I could flip from one site to another, comparing this item and that with ease. On one, it was cheaper. On another, it was dearer, but delivery was included in the price. On another, there was a bigger range. On yet another, the item looked better quality. After hours of hunting, I was utterly confused as to which was the best buy and where I had seen it!
Through all this, I have concluded that our son-in-law, who grew up in a different culture, made a very wise observation recently. Our daughter wanted to buy him a bicycle for his birthday, so asked him what sort he preferred. Did he want a road bike? Would a mountain bike be better? Perhaps an e-bike would be good. Or even a folding bike, for his trips to the city.
‘Just a plain, normal bike,’ he told her in the end, exasperated. ‘You people here have far too much choice!’
When I was in my teens, I remember being impacted by William Wordsworth’s poem ‘The World is Too Much with Us’, especially its opening lines:
The world is too much with us; late and soon,
Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers;
Little we see in Nature that is ours;
We have given our hearts away, a sordid boon!
All that ‘getting and spending’ must have felt overwhelming for me even then. Somehow, I remember sensing we were made for much more than this. But in later years, a few little words the Apostle Paul wrote impacted me even more:
Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. 1 Timothy 6:6-7 NLT
Yes, those many things I have been super-busy buying are so temporary, aren’t they? How much more important to be rich in the things of God!
May I remember that this Christmas—and always.
Jo-Anne Berthelsen's Blog 
Good morning Jo-Anne 🌺
Such a thoughtful post. At nearly sixty-five I can empathise with the overwhelmingness of your shopping expeditions, both online and in the bricks and mortar. So much of what we buy these days isn’t truly necessary. I know I’ve made some rather silly, illogical purchases in my time. Yes indeed, going back to the shopping centres after covid lockdowns is overwhelming, but I also think that with these restrictions there are both good and bad points. More people are now comfortable with online shopping … in doing so many things online. That’s not a bad thing, but the ease of spending is. I guess the world is changing and we all need to shop mindfully. I have found that if I put some items in the online shopping cart, then instead of going straight away to the payment section, I hold off for a half-hour, or an hour, or a few hours, I often end up removing a thing or two from the cart. It gives me time to pause and reflect, which has saved me from wasting money. I love the saying ‘health is wealth’ … not just physical health, but emotional and mental as well. Gratitude is linked to emotional health, so I think the best thing we can do for ourselves and others in this current climate is be grateful for Who we have and what He has gifted to us.
Wishing you a blessed and beautiful Christmas, dear Jo-Anne 🌲🎉
God bless 🦋🌺
Josephine
Josephine, what you have written yourself is so lovely and thoughtful, so thank you for taking the time to respond as you have. I agree with all you have written but particularly love your idea of putting those online purchases in the cart, then going away for an hour or so and just letting it all percolate. That really gives God time to speak to us too, doesn’t it? So true too that we need to be very grateful for what we have–and, above all, for Who we have. God bless you this Christmas and throughout 2022.